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The Absorbent Mind and the Sensitive Periods

by Vesna Gornik, Early Childhood Head Teacher
(edited by Tori Inkley)

“Just as a physical embryo needs its mother’s womb in which to grow, so the spiritual embryo needs to be protected by an external environment that is warm with love and rich in nourishment, where everything is disposed to welcome, and nothing to harm it.”
(The Secret of Childhood, p. 35)

Dr. Maria Montessori, in The Absorbent Mind, describes the human being as having a “double embryonic life” – one prenatal and the other postnatal. This dual life sets humans apart from animals who rely on instincts, while humans are born with an inner, unseen personality that requires a special environment to flourish. The term “Absorbent Mind” refers to a child’s remarkable ability to absorb effortlessly everything around her, from culture to customs, ideas, ideals, sentiments, feelings, emotions, and religion, especially during the first six years of life.

The first stage of a child’s life is one of adaptation. Unlike adults, who can never fully adapt to a new environment, children are highly adaptable to their surroundings. While adults of various cultural backgrounds will most always prefer to eat food from their native countries… even after relocating to a different country… children will generally embrace the food that is put in front of them. As adults, whether you choose to use plates or bowls, forks or chopsticks, etc., usually depends on your childhood experience. And children don’t just adapt to time and place; they also absorb the local mentality. Dr. Montessori believed that, regardless of the country in which a child is born, he is endowed with an “absorbent mind”.

According to Montessori, a child develops in stages. The first stage, from zero to six years, is a period of transformation and is subdivided into two phases. From birth to three years, the child has an unconscious absorbent mind, where she constantly absorbs impressions from the environment without awareness or will. From three to six years, the child’s absorbent mind becomes conscious, and the child becomes intentional in her actions and begins to exercise her will. During this critical period, intelligence and personality are formed as the child begins consciously interacting with the world around her.

A child absorbs knowledge from the environment effortlessly. He is like a sponge and has a capacity to learn by himself through observation. One of the most impressive demonstrations of this is in children learning foreign languages. You might not be able to tell whether someone speaks with a native accent or not, as children exposed to foreign languages early on tend to speak without an accent. If children have the chance to be exposed to multiple languages, they can easily master them. As an adult, I cannot distinguish tones in Chinese, no matter how hard I try; likewise, I have never spoken English without an accent even after years of practice. Similarly to language, a child also absorbs behavior. For instance, I once read about a young child who was raised in a home for the elderly. By the age of 15, he moved and walked as slowly as the seniors who resided there and had adopted their posture. After enough exposure, children have also been known to replicate how the adults around them interact with each other.

Through her work, Maria Montessori observed that children pass through various “Sensitive Periods” during which they are more receptive to learning certain skills effortlessly, such as walking and talking, and even more refined skills like reading, writing, and good manners. During those periods, children want to do particular activities (practice skills) themselves; they often cannot get enough of an activity and want to repeat it over and over again. These periods are transient, and if not capitalized on, opportunities to perfect specific skills may be lost for good.

The Sensitive Period for Language begins much earlier than most realize. By 10 to 12 months, monolingual babies have already lost the ability to distinguish certain sounds from a second language that is not spoken at home. Children absorb sounds, words, and grammar from their environment. In language acquisition, the social environment plays a crucial role. Infants need to interact with people to learn language; they cannot do it simply by listening to a radio or TV. The best advice for new parents would be not to underestimate a baby. Parents should talk to a baby as much as possible, describing every action they take (e.g., “I’m going to bathe you now”, “It’s time to change your diaper”, “Do you want to wear the blue pajamas tonight?”, etc.).

Introducing books early and using fabric books so the child can engage with them using different senses (sight, touch, and even taste), is a wonderful early step toward language and vocabulary development. Later, parents can provide hardcover books that children cannot destroy. Parents should read to the child, point to the pictures, and patiently repeat words so long as the child is interested. Parents, grandparents, and even older siblings can ask young children to point to objects in a book as the adult or sibling names them. One should also remember that children absorb not just vocabulary, but actual language, tone, and phraseology, and will use those later on as well. Therefore, it’s important to be mindful of what you say. I was surprised when, at two and a half years old, my own daughter ended her first phone conversation with me by saying, “Have a good time.” – a phrase I often use with others.

Dr. Montessori believed that scientific words should be taught to children between the ages of three and six years, and that writing can only be learned with joy and enthusiasm before this period ends. I observed the process of repetition firsthand when my own daughter insisted that I repeat the names of objects in a book countless times, pointing at them with her finger. Once she mastered those words, she lost interest and moved on to her next task. The case of Victor, the “Wild Boy from Aveyron”, who never learned to speak, is an example of a missed sensitive period for language acquisition. Victor was discovered in the wild in 1800, when he was about ten or eleven years old. Developmental disability was ruled out, and his case provided evidence that there is a critical period during which spoken language must be learned.

The Sensitive Period for Order occurs in a child’s first year and continues through the second. Everything in the child’s environment should be kept in its proper place, and the actions of the day should follow a regular routine. This sense of order extends to both time and space. This can be clearly observed in young children, who need regular meals and sleep times to avoid becoming fussy. An ordered environment leads to order in the mind. To help children the most, we should maintain order and routine, stability and a general rhythm in their environment and their lives.

Among other things, Maria Montessori noticed a young child’s fascination with small objects, particularly beginning in the child’s second year. E. M. Standing wrote that this period is somewhat connected to the Sensitive Period for Order. “Children are drawn by a peculiar fascination to tiny objects in their environment – objects so small that adults often overlook them.” In today’s world, this interest is often overlooked because small objects are generally removed from environments where children under the age of three are present.

Some sensitive periods are not necessarily easy for the adult to determine, other than a general age range. Some periods, however, are very easy for adults to recognize, such as the Sensitive Period for Walking. There is also a Sensitive Period for Toilet Training, and when introduced at the right time, some say children can become trained in a week.

The Sensitive Period for the Refinement of the Senses lasts from 2 ½ to 6 years. This period coincides with the Sensitive Period for Learning Good Manners. Dr. Montessori used the Sensitive Period for the Refinement of Movement to introduce children to Practical Life exercises. “If,” said Montessori, “this perfecting of movement is introduced at the creative moment (2 ½ – 4 years), it not only tends to the normal development of the mind but also affects the whole personality, bringing contentment, concentration, and inner nourishment.” Skiing is a good example of a skill that is easily learned in childhood but becomes difficult to learn as an adult. Even if an adult does learn, his movements would not be as graceful or natural as those of someone who learned at a younger age. Similarly, we observe that athletes in gymnastics or ice skating can truly excel only if they begin practicing before a certain age.

In summary, the concepts of the “Absorbent Mind” and “Sensitive Periods” underscore the importance of creating a nurturing environment for children. During the early years, children have an incredible ability to adapt to whatever environment they were born into. To succeed in this task, a child absorbs everything in her environment. Because of the child’s absorbent mind, it’s crucial that adults be mindful of our behavior and actions. A child becomes a mirror of the adults in his life, absorbing not only positive behaviors but also negative ones. The Absorbent Mind and Sensitive Periods are closely connected. Dr. Montessori used the knowledge of Sensitive Periods to help children learn easily at the right time. By understanding these periods, she was able to support children in refining their senses, movements, and manners with ease, and the results were permanent. Montessori used individualized lessons, knowing that children experience different sensitive periods at different times. We must be observant when a child is going through a sensitive period and offer the right support.

Montessori’s recognition of Sensitive Periods gives us a framework for understanding how children learn best. We need to offer them the right opportunities to develop, to allow them to follow certain interests, to not interrupt them, to prepare the environment (making materials accessible so that when the time comes, the child will notice them and start using them independently), and to provide only the necessary help, as any unnecessary help is an obstacle to the child’s development.

As it would be unrealistic to expect an adult to change, Maria Montessori believed in the power of a child to achieve peace: “By taking the child into consideration, we touch something common to all humanity. We cannot achieve world harmony simply by attempting to unite all these adult people who are so different; but we can achieve it if we begin with the child, who is not born with national and racial prejudices.” (Her Life and Work, p. 157)

Works Referenced
“Hearing Bilingual: How Babies Sort Out Language”. New York Times, 11 October 2011.
Lillard, Paula Polk. Montessori: A Modern Approach. Schocken Books, 1972.
Montessori, Maria. The Absorbent Mind. Henry Holt, 1995.
Montessori, Maria. The Secret of Childhood. Ballantine Books,1966.
Standing, E.M. Maria Montessori: Her Life and Work. Plume, 1998.

A Montessori Journey for Adults: Educating the Educators

by Doreen Adamo, Program Director of Montessori Center for Teacher Development

“The real preparation for education is a study of one’s self.
The training of the teacher who is to help life is something far more
than the learning of ideas. It includes the training of character;
it is a preparation of the spirit.”
~ Dr. Maria Montessori

Montessori teachers are a special breed of teachers. Their method of teaching differs significantly from a traditional teaching method because Montessori teachers place much more emphasis on the children’s natural interests and abilities. Their role is to observe and respond with appropriate individualized guidance and instruction. The students discover information for themselves using specially prepared materials. It is believed that children who are at liberty to choose their work freely in a specially prepared environment develop a true love of learning.

The Montessori Children’s Academy (MCA) proudly boasts its own MACTE-accredited, AMS-affiliated Teacher Education Program – Montessori Center for Teacher Development (MCTD). Since the program’s inception in 2014, MCTD has trained and assisted in the certification of many Adult Learners at an Early Childhood level. Through meaningful experiences in a respectful and inspirational learning environment, adults are entrusted to uphold Montessori traditions in their endeavor to become the best Montessori teachers that they can be.

MCTD is designed to support Adult Learners through each segment of its 2-year training program. The curriculum is comprised of three components: Academic Phase I (a four-week summer intensive phase), Academic Phase II (which meets on designated weekends, during the regular academic year), and the Practicum Phase (the internship/student teaching year). During the Academic Phases, the Adult Learners meet in the training classroom, where they attend academic lectures and practice with hands-on materials. The training classroom is fully equipped with AMS-approved and required materials with which the Adult Learner can practice. During the Practicum Phase, the Interns work in a classroom and receive mentorship and guidance from an experienced certified Montessori Supervising Teacher and are monitored by an MCTD Field Consultant. The training culminates in the candidate receiving an Early Childhood Montessori Certification to teach children ages 2 ½ through 6 years.

MCTD aims to provide meaningful learning experiences to all Adult Learners and offers opportunities for exploration and active participation throughout the training program. Preparing and empowering Adult Learners to become exceptional, effective Montessori educators while attending to the unique needs of each Adult Learner are the primary goals of MCTD. Our Instructors are professionals with diverse backgrounds and a wide range of teaching experiences. However, they all have one thing in common; a great passion for the Montessori Method and a desire to prepare adults for a great Montessori experience.

“The MCTD program provides all of the guidance and support that is needed to be successful to Adult Learners who, like me, have no prior knowledge of the Montessori Method or experience in a Montessori classroom. In addition to growing in my understanding about Montessori, I have also changed and grown personally as well. While juggling my many responsibilities, I have been forced to become more organized, to procrastinate less, and to be more confident both in and out of the classroom. I had forgotten how much fun it is to learn, and the great thing about being a Montessori Teacher is that the teachers never stop learning along with their students! There have admittedly been many late nights writing papers and last-minute shopping trips to stores to find the materials needed for a lesson, but looking back, it was all worthwhile. I now know that I have found what I want to do during the next phase of my career, and I look forward to what the future holds.”
~ Diane Palazzi, EC Certified Teacher/MCTD Graduate

If you are interested in learning what MCTD has to offer, please email us at MC4TD@aol.com, call 973-539-0196, or visit our website at www.montessoricenterforteacherdevelopment.com for more information.

At MCTD, we Empower Adult Learners to Empower Children.

A Day in the Life of a Montessori Teacher

by Alex Chiu and Sue Gallo

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A teacher’s carefully prepared environment

Montessori teachers possess a special passion for their chosen field of education and a strong desire to promote the growth and well-being of children in their classrooms. They approach teaching with warm hearts, open minds, careful attention to detail, and a strong commitment to the Montessori Method and to their students. Here’s a peek into one teacher’s preparation and progression through a ‘typical day’.

I have thought long and hard about how best to describe a ‘typical’ day as a Montessori teacher. The first thing that comes to mind is preparation. Preparation is one of the essential elements in the Montessori classroom, and a typical day begins with preparation for the children even before we enter the school. Every day, Montessori teachers have a ‘plan’ for each individual student. We believe it is important to follow the child, and to do that we need to know the children and provide each one with guidance in the areas that will help him or her grow. Being prepared for every school day means knowing which students are ready for new lessons, which need a bit of support in completing a work, who could use some extra attention, and who might be ready to take on new class leadership roles. Using her or his skills of observation from each day in the classroom, the Montessori teacher plans how to approach and work with the students on a daily basis. This preparation is ongoing, and many Montessori teachers find themselves involved in this type of preparation at home, in the car, and in the classroom, as they are always looking for ways to make the most of each day for each child. As Dr. Montessori said, “Our care of the child should be governed, not by the desire to make him learn things, but by the endeavor always to keep burning within him that light which is called intelligence.”

Beyond preparing how to work with our students, another type of preparation we engage in is the preparation of the environment. Monthly, we prepare our room with work that focuses on a variety of Practical Life skills. We try to keep the work fresh and inviting to draw the students to this area so that they can continue working on skills that develop eye-hand coordination, left-to-right orientation, and concentration, just to name a few. Using seasonal colors, or enticing objects, we carefully arrange the materials in an organized and beautiful way. We teachers often try out the work ourselves to make sure it is appropriate for a young child to use, with just the right level of difficulty. We also change our Science activities or add something new to the Cultural shelves or the Art area in order to engage and challenge some of our older students or to extend a lesson of interest to the class. According to Maria Montessori, “The environment must be rich in motives which lend interest to activity and invite the child to conduct his own experiences.” She also believed, “The teacher must not content herself with merely providing her school with an attractive environment; she must continuously think about this environment, because a large part of the result depends on it.”

On a daily basis, we always take care to make sure that each area of the classroom is in order, with clean shelves that hold complete, carefully placed materials. When we arrive at school around 8:00AM (or earlier), we make sure chairs are in place, fresh water is added to the necessary materials in Practical Life, fresh food preparation work is set out, and that the work in each part of the environment is inviting. In some MCA classrooms, we prepare other items, such as the classroom job chart, fresh paint in the Art area, or pet food for the feeding of the class pet. Each day we remember, as Maria Montessori did, that “To assist a child we must provide him with an environment which will enable him to develop freely.”

Once the physical classroom is prepared, we remember to prepare ourselves with a smile and a positive attitude, grateful for another Montessori day! Dr. Montessori stated, “It is not enough for the teacher to love the child. She must first love and understand the universe. She must prepare herself, and truly work at it.” So we teachers work to present our best selves every day. By 8:30AM (or earlier in some classrooms), we begin to greet the children at the door. We welcome them in and depending on the classroom, the Assistant Teacher may read a story or have a conversation with the children at circle as they wait for their classmates to arrive. In other classrooms, students may begin choosing their work from the shelves for their work cycle immediately upon entering the classroom. It is always a joy to see our students in the morning, as they come to school filled with anticipation and excitement about what they will be doing that day!

At some point during the morning, students will have the opportunity to go outside on the playground. Outside playtime is an essential element of childhood. The children need fresh air and outdoor movement, and their free play is a chance to socialize and play creatively outside the classroom walls. As teachers, we use this as yet another opportunity to observe, facilitate, and enjoy time with our students. We observe both the leaders and the children who need some help interacting with others. We see opportunities to foster relationships on the playground and in the classroom. We take very seriously Dr. Montessori’s tenet that “To stimulate life, leaving it free, however, to unfold itself – that is the first duty of the educator.”

When we return to our classroom, students may finish their morning jobs, teachers may present new work, and other students may share something with their classmates, which encourages listening and speaking skills. After being outdoors, we are ready to go back to work. The children are allowed and encouraged to choose work to which they are drawn. Teachers facilitate a work period during which children can become absorbed in what they are doing with few interruptions. The children are absorbed because they have the freedom to choose to work with something that is fascinating to them in their particular stage of development. All the while, the teachers are observing, presenting lessons, and facilitating learning. We enjoy hearing the delight in students’ voices as they make new discoveries, achieve goals, and solve problems. The steady low hum of classroom activities tells us that our classroom is productive. We strive to achieve the goal set forth by Dr. Montessori when she said, “The greatest sign of success for a teacher is to be able to say, “The children are now working as if I did not exist.””

After the work period, some teachers ring chimes to end work and prepare for lunch. The children clean up their work, wash their hands, and get their lunches. Lunch is an extremely valuable learning time. Children are encouraged to be independent as they set up their lunch spaces and open their containers. Teachers help them to ‘do it themselves’. As we learned from Maria Montessori, “We must support as much as possible the child’s desires for activity; not wait on him, but educate him to be independent.” Throughout the day, students practice grace and courtesy, but this is especially true at lunchtime. Just as we do on the playground, teachers use this time to join in casual conversations with our students and to listen to how they interact with one another, all the while tucking our observations into our memory banks to help us in the future. When finished, the children clean up after themselves, taking good care of their classroom before they leave.

To end the morning session, students and teachers gather together on the carpet to conclude the day with songs or a story and always good conversation. As children await whoever is picking them up from school, they have this final time as a community until we meet again the next morning. After the last child has left, we will check our emails or voicemails for any parent communications, confer with our Assistants or other Teachers about the day’s events, and perhaps attend a school meeting with the Director or other staff.

Once the students are dismissed and any teacher meetings have concluded, the typical day ends in much the same manner that it began. We inspect each area of the classroom to make sure the materials are complete and in order, put away any water or food work, complete the clean-up of tables, chairs, and the floor, and ensure the environment is safe and clean. As we move about the room, we also reflect upon our observations of the day, taking down notes about student progress, concerns, and the general classroom climate. We take time to consider which lessons students will need the next day, what types of guidance to provide to certain students who were especially quiet (or noisy or unsettled), and how to make sure each child is challenged, secure, and attended to – all in preparation and anticipation of… tomorrow!

“Whoever touches the life of the child touches the most sensitive point of a whole
which has roots in the most distant past and climbs toward the infinite future.”
~ Maria Montessori

Eye on the Montessori Elementary Experience

By Alex Chiu

Most people equate Montessori education with early childhood or the preschool years. However, did you know that there are Montessori programs which begin serving children in infancy and extend up through the elementary, middle, and high school grades? For families who embrace the Montessori philosophy, they truly do see Montessori education as an ‘education for life’ and something that continues throughout their children’s school years and beyond. Many adopt a Montessori approach to their family home life, especially if there is not an opportunity to continue in a Montessori program beyond preschool. We are lucky in that The Montessori Children’s Academy offers programs which invite families to begin the Montessori journey at age 18 months in the Montessori, My Child, & Me child-caregiver program and continues with programs for Preschool, Kindergarten, and Lower and Upper Elementary students. The MCA Elementary Program, one of the few Montessori Elementary programs in our area, serves students in grades 1-8 and is located at our Short Hills campus.

MCA Elementary Highlights
Let’s take a peek into just some of the unique opportunities that students have when they continue their Montessori education beyond the Preschool and Kindergarten years and move into the Elementary Program. Our MCA Elementary students benefit from many varied and unique experiences both in and out of the classroom. Here’s a sampling of just some of the special activities they’ve participated in so far this school year.

The MCA Garden
This year, our MCA Elementary students have taken over the responsibility of maintaining our school garden. When the weather was warmer, the students used tools such as pitchforks and hand trowels to clean up the garden and pull out bulbs that were no longer needed. Next, they will begin indoor planting in February. Students have also been in contact with the Master Gardeners of Essex County to help plan their garden. They even tied the garden to math lessons as they measured the area and perimeter so that they could draw, to scale, graphs of the garden in order to plan how they will utilize the space most efficiently. The garden is just one example of how our students connect with community members, such as the master gardeners, and extend their learning beyond the classroom walls. It also illustrates cross-curricular learning where gardening meets math, science, and more.

Practical Life Skills Put to Work
The Montessori Practical Life exercises came in handy to the Elementary students recently. They decided they needed to adjust the height of some classroom tables, so they grabbed screwdrivers and went to work. The students made tables taller so they could fit more comfortably, as they have all grown so much this year! Here, too, students took the lead in problem solving, putting their skills to use in a practical way, and working together for their classroom community’s comfort and well-being.

Exploring History and Making Predictions for the Future
Our Elementary students have been continuing to study pre-humans and the theory of evolution. In order to understand how scientists develop theories based on evidence, the students analyzed models of pre-human skulls. They wrote down observations, drew what they saw, and compared the skulls to one another. The students then developed theories based on what they saw, as well as their prior knowledge from class lessons, to hypothesize what the skull changes meant for humans and why these changes might have occurred. One student even took it upon himself to predict what evolutionary changes could happen in the future and why those changes might occur! Montessori students continuously build upon prior learning, making connections and discovering ways to answer their many thoughtful questions.

Protons, Neutrons, Electrons, Oh My!
To kick off our chemistry studies, the MCA Elementary students explored atoms! The students used three-part cards and books to learn about the different parts of an atom. Some students took the initiative to take their studies one step further. Here you can see 3-D atoms built by our students with materials they found around the classroom. Montessori students are hands-on, engaged, active learners!

What Montessori Elementary is All About
It’s important to note that our MCA Elementary Program maintains the hallmarks of the Montessori philosophy, keeping its true values at the core. Here is what Montessori Elementary (and beyond) is all about:

Classroom Community
One thing that remains consistent in Montessori education across ages is the mixed-age groupings of the students. The benefits of the mixed-age group are clear when students fluidly move from one level to the next as they are ready, not limited by age or grade, and as students learn from one another, with each bringing different talents and skills to the classroom. A younger student may already be an ‘expert’ in dinosaurs because of a vast amount of interest and research done on the subject, so that student might take on a teaching role to share his or her knowledge with the others, regardless of whether they are same-age peers, or younger or older students. Students take on various leadership roles at different times throughout the school year, and all work together in a way similar to how families function, with each class member taking on different responsibilities and everyone working together for the common good of a happy, productive, learning environment.

Teachers Who Guide Students
Montessori Elementary teachers have a certification that is specifically designed for teachers working with the elementary age groups. Using their finely tuned observation skills, they adapt lessons to the needs and readiness of their students, continuously offering appropriate, challenging, and engaging activities. Montessori teachers act more as guides than lecturers, helping their students understand that the students must take ownership of their learning, which makes their learning so much more meaningful. This is not to say that Montessori teachers don’t ‘teach’. They meticulously prepare their classrooms, work alongside their students, and provide all of the support necessary to promote active, challenging, and real learning in their classrooms.

Montessori Materials and More
Elementary students may continue to use some of the same materials familiar to them from their Primary classes, but they do so in a much more advanced, sophisticated way. The materials grow with the students, moving them ever forward from concrete to abstract thinking. Supplementing these Montessori materials are important curriculum materials that equal and surpass what is being presented in traditional elementary schools. These may include supplemental writing exercises, literature, science tools, and current technology. What is different is that Montessori students continue to have the freedom to explore these varied academic components after having been provided with initial guidance by a teacher. After an introductory lesson on a material or concept, students move forward with their learning at their own pace, oftentimes seeking out independent study of special areas of interest. Very often, learning is interconnected across subject areas, and students can see how the skills they learn in their core academic areas work together in so many real life situations.

An Uninterrupted Work Cycle
The work cycle of the Elementary classroom is similar to the Primary class in that the Elementary students also have a long, uninterrupted work time. During this work cycle, they may move from one activity or subject to another, completing experiments, writing essays, doing research, and working independently, in small groups, or with a teacher. The school day also includes special classes, such as Spanish, Music, Art, Technology, Physical Education, and Health.

Peace Education and Community Connections
The MCA Elementary Program continues developing the students’ global awareness and civic responsibilities through the ongoing Peace Education curriculum. This includes not only learning social graces, but also incorporating environmental education and involvement in community service activities. Students are encouraged to make community connections, and as they do, they discover that there is so much that they have to offer in making the world a better place starting right within their own communities.

Continuing a Montessori education beyond the preschool years allows children to further develop their love of learning while taking ownership of their education. Elementary students in a Montessori environment are provided with the opportunities to follow their interests and identify their passions. With the support and guidance of their teachers, these older Montessori students apply knowledge to new areas, make connections among subject areas, and delve deeper into each area of study. They come away with skills that stretch beyond strong academic performance. From their Montessori experiences, they learn how to learn, how to ask questions and seek answers, and how to be part of a community that works together for the benefit of all.

For more information about Montessori elementary in general, you might enjoy reading Montessori Today by Paula Polk Lillard, which provides an in-depth look at what Montessori elementary education is all about. We also invite you to visit our website at www.TheMontessoriChildrensAcademy.com for more details about our MCA Elementary Program, or call our Short Hills campus at 973-258-1400 to schedule a tour to visit and see for yourself.

Nurturing the Spirit of Charity and Goodwill

By Alex Chiu

The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines “charity” as “benevolent goodwill toward or love of humanity” and “generosity and helpfulness, especially toward the needy or suffering”. We seem to hear more from charities during this time of year, with Salvation Army bell ringers on every corner and more envelopes than we can carry from the mailbox requesting donations for various groups. It is in December when more people are inclined to volunteer or make a contribution, opening their hearts and wallets a little more easily.

No doubt, we all feel a little lighter when we’ve done something to help someone else. Scientific studies have shown that volunteering and making charitable contributions of time or money can affect how we feel—people who are charitable tend to be happier, and even, according to some studies, healthier. So, if it makes us feel good to help others, why so often, do we set aside the needs of others until December rolls around? How do we keep this spirit of charity and goodwill alive throughout the year not only within ourselves, but in our children?

Think about that first Merriam-Webster definition again. In what ways do we foster “benevolent goodwill toward or love of humanity” at home? First, it comes from how we treat our own family members, showing respect through our words and actions at home. We then must have the same expectation of our children to show respect to us, their siblings, and other relatives. Words do matter. So do actions. When our children see and then emulate respect at home, this then naturally trickles into their interactions with friends, neighbors, store clerks, classmates, teachers, colleagues, etc. For Montessori students, it’s reinforced daily with Grace and Courtesy lessons as well. In addition, as Maria Montessori herself said, “There is a great sense of community within the Montessori classroom, where children of differing ages work together in an atmosphere of cooperation rather than competitiveness. There is respect for the environment and for the individuals within it, which comes through experience of freedom within the community.” The Montessori classroom is an extension of that environment of respect which is developed in the home.

Next, think about the second part of the definition: “generosity and helpfulness, especially toward the needy or suffering”. Again, as the old adage acclaims “Charity begins at home”. How can your child show generosity and helpfulness at home? Very simply, they can do this by participating in the necessary tasks of daily life—tidying up, helping with mealtimes, sharing with siblings, or offering to do something for someone else who may be tired or busy. Parents who model this type of generosity and helpfulness, and who encourage their children to follow suit, have already laid the foundation for spreading that goodwill beyond their homes, where their children will realize that their acts of charity, however big or small, can benefit ‘the needy or suffering’, too.

This year, it’s been impossible to ignore the many needs of people suffering both in our own country and around the world. The many natural disasters, resulting in fires and flooding, have devastated so many areas near and far. Sometimes, even for adults, seeing the news repeat the details of such events can be overwhelmingly sad and disheartening. However, as we have seen with Hurricanes Harvey, Irma, and Maria, these disasters have actually brought people together working for the common good. And even our youngest children can learn that there are ways that they can help.

At The Montessori Children’s Academy, we recently held Bake Sales at each of our campuses, with all of the proceeds benefiting Montessori schools affected by Hurricane Maria in Puerto Rico. The students learned about how the schools were damaged, and class discussions led by the teachers allowed the children to process what it must be like for children just like them to not be able to go to school following such a strong storm. The empathy of the students permeated into their beautiful posters which were displayed at the Bake Sales, and the overwhelming response of parents, teachers, and administrative staff to contribute items as well as purchase them to support this great cause was heartwarming. In all, MCA raised more than $3,000 to support Instituto Nueva Escuela in its efforts to provide disaster relief to Montessori schools and their families in Puerto Rico!

In addition, MCA annually chooses an organization to support through various charitable endeavors throughout the entire school year. This year, we are supporting Paws of War. From September through June, our MCA students will learn about this organization and participate in several activities in the hopes of raising awareness, as well as funds, for the good work that they do. Earlier this fall, the students were treated to an in-school assembly where a Paws of War representative shared information about how the organization trains rescue dogs to become supportive service dogs to military veterans. The children had the opportunity to meet one veteran and his canine partner, and they learned firsthand how this partnership has improved the life of both the rescued dog and the serviceman. Doubly good work! Over the course of the next several months, MCA students will continue to learn about the programs and brainstorm other ways they would like to help.

At home, children learn respect and the value of helping family members. In school, there is a natural extension of this in the multi-age Montessori classrooms, where students help one another every day. Our Montessori children quickly come to learn that it feels good to help others. As a school that promotes awareness of a different charity each school year, our students also learn about the variety of larger needs in our communities. Whether it is by helping a classmate tie his or her shoelaces, making posters for a bake sale, or collecting money to support an organization such as Paws of War, they see that there are so many ways they can contribute to their communities and help others each and every day. And when a sudden disaster strikes, such as the hurricanes of this past fall, they see that their school families can combine efforts to help with those needs as well. Charity then is something that becomes a natural part of the children’s lives. Most importantly, they see that charity isn’t a one-time, December event. The children find that charity comes in the words and actions that they share daily, showing their “benevolent goodwill toward or love of humanity”.

This holiday season, everyone at
The Montessori Children’s Academy
extends our warmest wishes for
Peace on Earth and Goodwill to All!

*For more information about or to make a contribution to Paws of War, please visit their website www.pawsofwar.org. For more information about Instituto Nueva Escuela, please visit www.en-inepr.weebly.com and the GoFundMe page https://www.gofundme.com/puerto-rico-montessori2montessori to help support the disaster relief efforts for the Montessori community in Puerto Rico.