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Charitable Efforts: How MCA is Making a Difference with Our Students and in Our World

by Camilla Nichols, Senior Director of Montessori Development
and Tori Inkley, Executive Director

At The Montessori Children’s Academy (MCA), we believe in demonstrating to our students how all people can make a difference in our local communities and in the world. We want our children to understand that even from a young age, it is possible to make an impact on someone’s life. Whether that is done through feeding those who are hungry or providing warm coats, gloves, or blankets during the cold winter months, we value the importance of giving back.

Over MCA’s 25 year history, we have chosen various organizations that would welcome our students (beginning with the 2 ½-year-olds), families, and staff to become involved in different projects; leaving our footprints and spreading love and care to those in need. Over the years, some of MCA’s charitable efforts have included:

Bridges Outreach Program: Our students, families, and staff collected various food items, which were placed in “breakfast bags” that were also decorated by students. Class Parents and some of our Elementary students then dropped the bags off at Bridges for distribution to those in need.
Puerto Rico Montessori Assistance: During one school year, we were able to earmark the proceeds of our annual Kindergarten Bake Sale to help fund the re-building of Montessori Schools in Puerto Rico following a disastrous storm.
Paws of War: MCA has sold reusable grocery bags and donated the proceeds to Paws of War. Students were then thrilled afterward when veterans came and brought their therapy dogs to visit our schools.
St. Peter’s Orphanage: Another memorable organization that MCA worked with was St. Peter’s Orphanage. Our families, staff, and communities donated to a fund that allowed the boys residing at the orphanage to enjoy a festive winter celebration and helped to purchase items to create a Sensory room for the residents. MCA’s incredible staff also spent an In-Service Day cleaning the grounds of St. Peter’s, planting flowers, assembling bikes, and even putting together a skate ramp for the residents to enjoy. Through ties to an alumni family, a member of Zac Brown Band also provided signed drumsticks to all of the boys at St. Peter’s.
The Valerie Fund: One school year, MCA partnered with The Valerie Fund when one of our alumni students was diagnosed with leukemia. Students, families, and staff joined together to donate teddy bears and various other toys to the fund to be given to children struggling with a cancer diagnosis that required months spent in a hospital.
The Country Home: Just before COVID shut us all down, MCA worked with The Country Home, a Memory Care facility in Morristown. Our students and teaching staff created handmade Montessori materials for the residents of the facility. Each week, two of our staff members would visit the residents of The Country Home and work with them using those materials. Our motivation for this partnership stemmed from research that has shown that persons with dementia can regain some of their memory by using Montessori materials to stimulate their senses. During the holidays that year, our Elementary students also paid a visit to The Country Home where they read a holiday book and sang for the residents. It was an incredible experience for MCA to collaborate with this amazing facility!
Girls on the Run: Through a connection with the Girls on the Run organization, MCA was able to help create a Girls on the Run site for ten young girls at a Newark school. The curriculum for this program is self-esteem based and incorporates healthy living and running. Through donations from our families and staff, we were also able to help purchase new running shoes for the girls, who were extremely grateful for this new opportunity. Our Director of Montessori Development was then able to run a 5K with this group of girls and hand them their gold medals at the finish line.
Interfaith Food Pantry of Morris Plains: Most recently, in November, MCA participated in a Thanksgiving Food Drive in conjunction with the Interfaith Food Pantry of Morris Plains, as well as Calvary Presbyterian Church in Florham Park. Our students, families, and staff donated food items that went into making hundreds of Thanksgiving meals during the holiday. Some of our Class Parents helped drop off the donations at the food pantry and commented on what a special experience it was for them and their children.

No matter what organization we are supporting or to what charity we may be donating, we at MCA strongly feel that with this charitable giving of items, knowledge, or time, it is most important that our students understand why we are involved in such projects. It is not enough to just give; we also take these opportunities to educate our students on just how differently life can look to our fellow human beings. We do this by reading books, looking at pictures, having in-depth discussions, and whenever possible, inviting these organizations to visit our schools and talk with our students.

The Montessori Children’s Academy is devoted to not only educating our lifelong learners, but to helping build good, caring citizens of the world. We work to illustrate to our students that our communities and our world are better because they each are here and they are capable of making a long lasting impact, even from a young age, on the lives of others. We are all leaving footprints on this Earth and in this world. It is never too early to begin leaving the “good kind”.

The recent collection of food items for the Thanksgiving Food Drive

Even our youngest friends were happy to lend a helping hand

The Montessori Legacy… and One Person’s Journey

by Camilla Nichols, Senior Director of Montessori Development
(edited by Tori Inkley)

As many know, the Montessori Method of education has been around for over 100 years. Maria Montessori was born and raised in Italy, which is also where she opened the very first Montessori School, Casa dei Bambini, in San Lorenzo in 1907. Given her own thirst for knowledge and desire to make a difference in the world, Dr. Montessori became one of the first female doctors in Italy, graduating from the University of Rome in 1896. After graduating, she became an assistant at the university hospital and continued to conduct research in the psychiatric clinic. It was in this clinic where she witnessed immense concentration in a young boy who, despite being understimulated and not properly cared for, picked up breadcrumbs from the floor, one by one, over a long period of time. Though maybe not particularly significant to anyone else, to that child, the work of picking up breadcrumbs lead to great focus.

While studying and observing children in various environments, Dr. Montessori discovered that if the children were provided with meaningful activities, they would develop both independence and self-confidence. From those initial discoveries, she went on to develop colorful and inviting materials that would stimulate a child’s senses and would allow the child to work independently and self-correct without needing the assistance of an adult. The environment that she prepared for the children contained child-sized shelves and furniture, and the children were able to choose their own work, as well as choose where to work (i.e., on a floor rug, at a table, or in the rose garden). The Montessori Directresses (Teachers) moved around the classroom as guides, observing the needs of the children and respectfully allowing them to complete their work… only interrupting when and if needed. At this school, the children learned Grace and Courtesy, in addition to building academic skills through work in the areas of Practical Life, Math, Language, Sensorial, and Culture. In this Prepared Environment, the child became the driving force, not the teacher. At Casa dei Bambini, the children thrived and were so stimulated through purposeful engagement, that they didn’t want to leave at the end of the day. Casa de Bambini, which means “Children’s House”, immediately drew worldwide attention. Visitors from across the globe came to witness the children performing “work”, which included engaging in daily life skills. The children were observed eating meals using porcelain plates and utensils and drinking from glasses. The school looked more like a home with fresh cut flowers in small vases and a beautiful garden. While creating this original school with its impressive materials and establishing the Montessori Method, Maria Montessori called upon the work of her greatest influencers: Friedrich Froebel, Jean Rousseau, Edouard Seguin, and Jean Marc Gaspard Itard.

In 1915, at the World Fair in San Francisco, a “Glass Classroom” was constructed and put on display. In the classroom were 30 children with no prior Montessori experience; something Dr. Montessori insisted on. The children were observed working on meaningful activities for three full months. Spectators at the fair soon referred to them as “miracle children”, as they witnessed the powerful sense of concentration that was taking place and the phenomenon of children joyously working independently. While this new educational model had quickly begun spreading around the world several years prior to the fair, with the first school in America opening in New York in 1911, due to world events and personal events in Dr. Montessori’s own life, it wasn’t until the 1960s that the Montessori Method was firmly established once and for all in the United States. Maria Montessori quickly became well respected by world leaders, such as Thomas Edison, Helen Keller, Ghandi, Alexander Graham Bell, and President Woodrow Wilson, who even established a Montessori classroom in the basement of the White House during his presidency.

In 1960, after being appointed the U.S. Representative of the Association Montessori Internationale (AMI) by Mario Montessori, the son of Maria, Nancy McCormick Rambusch established the American Montessori Society (AMS) of which The Montessori Children’s Academy is a member. Mrs. Rambusch had also founded the first authentic Montessori School in the United States, Whitby School, which is located in Greenwich, CT, and she served as its first Headmistress from 1958 – 1962. The opening of Whitby is believed to be the beginning of the Montessori resurgence in America. Today, there are over 15,750 Montessori schools around the world, with some boasting famous alumni such as Jeff Bezos (Amazon Chairman), Sergey Brin (Google Co-Founder), George Clooney (Actor/Filmmaker), Sean Combs (aka P. Diddy; Rapper/Record Producer), Steph Curry (NBA Player), John Cusack (Actor/Producer), Anne Frank (German-born Jewish Diarist), Helen Hunt (Actor/Director), Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis (Editor/Journalist/Former First Lady), Larry Page (Google Co-Founder), Taylor Swift (Singer/Songwriter), Prince George of Wales, and more.

Over her lifetime, Maria Montessori trained thousands of Montessori teachers, published over 15 books, was nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize three times, and held lectures while traveling all over Europe, the United States, and India. One of the last training centers Dr. Montessori helped establish before she settled in the Netherlands was the Montessori Centre in London, which later became St. Nicholas Training Centre. She held her last training course in Austria at the age of 81, and died shortly thereafter in Noordwijk, Netherlands with her son Mario by her side.

I can honestly say I owe a debt of gratitude to Dr. Maria Montessori for the gifts she shared with the world. My own personal Montessori journey began some 28 years ago at St. Nicholas Training Center in London, and that path has provided me with an amazing opportunity to travel around the world as a Montessorian. While working as a teacher in Jakarta, Indonesia, with mainly non-English speaking students, I witnessed firsthand that regardless of religion, race, or language, the Montessori Method applies to all children. During my time as an educator at Whitby School in Connecticut, I observed Middle School students presenting graduation speeches on how the Montessori Method had influenced and changed their lives. And in 2006, I had the good fortune to become a part of The Montessori Children’s Academy family. In addition to being a former Head Teacher at MCA, I am also the proud mother of two MCA alumni who are now both successful college students; one in NC in the field of nursing and one in CO in the field of education. To this day, my children still tell me that MCA is where they learned to think outside the box and that those years were when it was fun to come to school.

After my time as an MCA Head Teacher, I became the Director of Montessori Development and had the immense privilege to be part of the team who founded Montessori Center for Teacher Development (MCTD), MCA’s very own Montessori Teacher Education Program. MCTD is now in its 10^th year of educating Early Childhood Montessori teachers throughout New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania. When I found The Montessori Children’s Academy, I knew that I had found my second home here in the states. During my almost 17 years with MCA, I have been able to guide and support hundreds of children and their families, instruct numerous Adult Learners enrolled in MCTD, host some very influential speakers during Parent Nights, present at AMS Conferences, hold inspirational in-services for our staff, and much more. MCA is also where I had the honor of meeting former Chief Executive Officer of AMS, Tim Purnell, who after visiting our school with his wife, chose to enroll their daughter at MCA, stating that they were looking for an environment that was not only high-fidelity, but a place where their daughter would flourish – as it’s not just the pedagogy that makes Montessori, but the entire look and feel of a program. (The interview with Dr. Purnell is at https://themontessorichildrensacademy.com/blog/2019/10/01/spotlight-on-dr-timothy-purnell/ )

In addition to my time with MCA, I have also been a consultant to other Montessori schools in the United States and abroad; most recently, I have been consulting with Bladins, a school located in Malmö, Sweden, near where I grew up. I recall that in 1972, I was placed on a student waiting list for the only Montessori school that existed in my hometown at that time. My mother was very carefully planting the seeds for what I now consider to be my life’s quest… sharing my Montessori passion with others around the world. Fast forward to the fall of 2022 when I was visiting Italy. My eyes welled with tears as the Director of Casa dei Bambini opened the school door and welcomed me into the very first classroom that Dr. Maria Montessori had created. Everything was still the same… from the Pink Tower to the children eating on porcelain dishes in the dining room to the still thriving rose bush Maria planted in the garden. Her legacy lives on and continues to touch thousands of children every day, all around the world. With that, I would like to say that I am so glad you have chosen The Montessori Children’s Academy, an authentic Montessori school that I am very proud to be a part of, for your children and your families. It is my sincere hope that you too feel that this is your second home; a home filled with love for the Montessori Method, and most importantly, filled with love for your children.

“Shaping Peace Together” at MCA

Peace before me; Peace behind me
Peace at my left; Peace at my right
Peace above me; Peace below me
Peace unto me; Peace in my surroundings
Peace to all; Peace to the Universe

Most of us think of September as the end of summer and start of a new school year, celebrating Labor Day as the month’s main holiday. However, around the globe, September is known for something different – it is the month in which the International Day of Peace is celebrated. Established in 1981, September 21^st has been designated as the date when “the United Nations invites all nations and people to honour a cessation of hostilities during the Day, and to otherwise commemorate the Day through education and public awareness on issues related to peace.” Each year, the United Nations adopts a theme for their peace celebration, and this year’s theme is “Shaping Peace Together”. At MCA, this very idea has long been the foundation of our peace curriculum, following in the footsteps of Dr. Maria Montessori who dedicated herself to peace efforts. The work continues today, as we all strive for peace in our homes, peace in our communities, and peace in our world.

As the school year begins, Montessori classrooms work very hard to establish a peaceful community by focusing on respect for self, others, and the environment. Teachers know that one key to external peace is having internal peace and that one method of instilling inner peace in children is by showing them respect. At its core, Montessori education focuses on respecting children, as we ‘follow the child.’ In the classroom, teachers observe their students, looking at and attending to the interests and needs of each individual. Children’s work is valued and their needs are considered. Students in Montessori classrooms learn that what they do matters, what they feel matters, and what they say matters. The primary lessons shared in class relate to those three factors and move children towards doing good work, acknowledging their feelings and the feelings of others, and expressing themselves kindly, clearly, and respectfully. This in turn helps promote feelings of being centered, confident, and capable. Children show respect for themselves in the work choices they make at school, in the self-care activities they practice and learn, and in they way they come to understand their feelings. These small but important steps help children feel at peace within themselves.

As children gather this sense of self, they then can begin to extend respect beyond themselves. They learn simple Grace and Courtesy lessons in sharing greetings, asking for help, contributing to circle time discussions, and making their needs known. As they grow in their communication and social skills, they form friendships, manage disagreements, and acknowledge differences. Inner peace and respect for self moves outward as children begin showing respect for others and creating a peaceful environment for all. Moving forward on this path, the classroom community very quickly begins to collectively take ownership of the beautiful materials they share, the space they inhabit, and the kind of feelings they want to sustain while working together. The classroom becomes a place where a peaceful community works together.

At each level, from toddlers up through Upper Elementary students, these basic lessons about respect and peace are built upon year after year, further cementing this important foundation. The beginning of every school year at MCA is all about “Shaping Peace Together”, by planting the seeds of peace and respect inside of each individual child and growing these values so they can be shared with peers, teachers, and the classroom environment. Ultimately, the goal is that peace and respect spread and bloom beyond classroom walls and into our homes, communities, and the world. We see the promise of peace each September when we welcome our students. And we strive to continue Dr. Montessori’s peace efforts as we celebrate the International Day of Peace and promote peace in our world not only on September 21^st, but each and every day.

You may enjoy reading some of the following books centered on the theme of peace with your families at home:

A Handful of Quiet – Happiness in Four Pebbles by Thich Nhat Hanh

Can You Say Peace? by Karen Katz

Maybe – The Story about the endless Potential in All of Us by Kobi Yamada

Peace is an Offering by Annette LeBox

Somewhere Today – A Book of Peace by Shelley Thomas

The Peace Rose by Alicia Olson

And for parents of older children, you might like to explore the United Nations site at https://www.un.org/en/observances/international-day-peace, which presents various ways to engage in the International Day of Peace and includes information about its virtual event for students on September 17^th, a summary of which follows as taken from the website:

Online Student Observance
This year’s International Day of Peace Observance will be a virtual event under the theme “Shaping Peace Together”, to be held on 17 September 2020 from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. EDT. The online Student Observance will begin with a dialogue between United Nations Messengers of Peace and young people around the world on the United Nations Secretary-General’s call for a global ceasefire and the importance of coming together peacefully to turn the COVID-19 crises into an opportunity for peace and inclusivity. The Peace Bell Ceremony will follow, featuring the participation of the United Nations Secretary-General, the President of the General Assembly and the Permanent Representative of Japan to the United Nations. There will also be a performance by the Universal Hip Hop Museum.

Montessori by the Sea

It’s fun to put on a ‘Montessori hat’ and observe families at the shore. Vacation sometimes brings out a different dynamic for family members, but it’s inspirational to see those who seem to embrace a Montessori-style approach as a way of life whether at home or at the beach.

Recently, a family of six made their way down the hot sand looking for their socially distant and safe place to set up for the day. The children immediately dropped their beach bags and toys and ran for the ocean’s edge. The parents paused just a moment, almost as if they were preparing to shout for the children to come back and help set up ‘camp’. Instead, they, too, set down their day’s supplies, and followed their children to the water. Letting their toes get tickled by a few waves that rolled to shore, they clearly were delighted by the sand and surf. After a few minutes they all turned around and walked back up to their beach area. There was not one murmur of dissent spoken by any of the children. All four skipped back to their belongings and helped organize their beach spot by spreading out their blankets, putting their flip flops in a pile under one chair, and placing their toys beside another. In this small moment, these parents followed their children’s lead in a lovely way. The joy the children exhibited for being at the beach was obvious, and their excitement to just get a feel of the water right away was met with understanding. Once that urge was satisfied, the children seemed happy to comply with the direction to help set up and organize their beach area before continuing with their fun.

Throughout the day, the family displayed many examples of a Montessori-type of approach to their entire beach experience. While they enjoyed activities together like swimming and playing paddle ball, they also had time where they each ‘did their own thing’. At one point, both parents and an older child were reading, one child napped under the umbrella, one was drawing with a stick on the sand, and one played a solo card game. All were completely content. No one’s ‘solitary work’ was interrupted by another. And when a couple of children were hungry, they simply went to the family’s cooler and helped themselves, remembering on their own to throw away their trash in the can at the top of the beach when they were done. The children seemed secure in knowing that they would have time when their parents played with them and gave them their full attention as well as time to make personal choices in what they could do alone or with one another. And the things they needed, like snacks and drinks or certain toys and supplies, were available to them to access on their own. It was like a modified Montessori classroom moved to the beach in all its simplicity and flexible ‘freedom within limits’ structure on the sand.

In the afternoon, when the children wanted to build a sandcastle, the parents joined in the initial efforts by providing their children with buckets of water but let the children take the lead in deciding what methods they would use to build it and how it would look. Like many Montessori materials, the sandcastle was a self correcting ‘work’. When it collapsed, the children accepted the challenge to see what they could do differently to prevent that from happening the next time. They spent hours on this endeavor, long after the parents retreated to their beach chairs close by just looking on from the distance. In the end, the sandcastle was quite the topsy turvy architectural wonder, decorated with seaweed and broken shells. It withstood the waves that crept closer due to the clever ‘moat’ the children dug all around it. This was a beautiful, child-created masterpiece. When the castle finally succumbed to the high tides that gradually came in, the children laughed as they watched it sink into the wet sand. It appeared that the process of building was what they enjoyed even more than the final product, and so they didn’t seem upset when their castle washed away.

Much later, as many families were packing up to leave, this one, too, faced the end of their perfect beach day. Not surprising, there were a few protests from the children requesting to ‘stay a little longer’. But again acknowledging their children’s feelings, the response was so Montessori-like in nature. “We’ve had such a great day and it’s hard to leave. But aren’t we lucky we get to come back again tomorrow?” Such simple, respectful words made an impact. The children, who very likely would have stayed hours longer if allowed, accepted that response since there was nothing to argue against it. These parents seemed to possess a toolkit of kindness, respect, understanding of their children’s needs, and gentle language, as well as the foresight of simple preparation of mind and materials, which created a simply beautiful Montessori by the sea kind of day for the whole family.

Weed or Wish?

How many of you have children who just don’t understand why people pull out dandelions from garden beds and lawns? Do your children insist that rather than being pesky weeds, these are actually lovely bursts of sunshine that spring up everywhere brightening the landscape? Do they squeal with glee when they see the ‘wishers’ popping up all around and moan with mourning when they are mowed down each weekend in an effort to keep the lawns looking nice and manicured? So what is a dandelion—a weed or a flower? Is the fluffy ball a wish or a weed? Whichever side of the garden fence you are on, this is just one example of a great teachable moment. And while you might want to teach your personal opinion about dandelions, what we mean is that this is a great opportunity to engage in a friendly debate with your child!

Many parents may believe their children are already experts at arguing (!), but learning how to express an opinion constructively rather than combatively is an important skill to possess. Children can be encouraged to think about their stance on an issue and learn that there’s more to it than arguing just for the sake of arguing. They can be prompted to collect information from reliable sources to help them make better informed comments on whatever position they may take. As they gather information, your children may discover that the facts indeed support their opinions. Or maybe they learn that they don’t, perhaps resulting in a change of mind. Moreover, children can learn that there are at least two sides to every issue and that each side might just have some valid points. Being able to consider an opposing view is as important as having your own. Children can gain empathy as they look at things from different perspectives. Even in the simple ‘weed vs. wish’ discussion, valuable learning is taking place as children actively engage in conversation, thoughtfully debate a topic, and listen to another’s viewpoints.

We’ve compiled just a few topics to get you started. Depending on your child’s age and interests, think of some questions or conversation starters that inspire some deeper thinking. By incorporating these types of questions into your long drives or dinnertimes, you will no doubt begin to have some fun and lively conversations with your family!

Is a dandelion a weed or a wish? Ask your child what he or she thinks about the dandelions that are growing in the yard (or on the soccer field, or in the garden). Are they a beautiful part of nature that should be free to grow voluntarily wherever their seeds land and germinate or are they destructive to the landscape and other growing plants?

Is a spider (or a snake) helpful or harmful? With this question, you might narrow down what type of spider or snake you’re talking about—maybe choose one that you’ve seen in your own area. Should the spider be exterminated because it looks scary or could potentially bite people? Or should it be allowed to spin its web to catch some other pesky bugs?

Should parents always allow children to eat dessert after dinner? Children could call on what they’ve learned about ‘red light’ and ‘green light’ foods with Nurse Bliss as they form their opinions. And what is the definition of dessert? Does it always mean ice cream or cookies? Through some fun research, children might learn that in some parts of the world, the last part of a meal, or ‘dessert’, is actually cheese and fruit.

Is it better to live in a city, a suburb, or a rural area? What does your child like and dislike about your own community’s lifestyle? Who might benefit from living in each type of environment and why? What are the pros and cons of each?

Should animals to be kept in zoos? How do animals benefit from care in a zoo? Are there some animals that are more suited for zoo life than others? Is it ‘fair’ for animals to live in cages?

Is it necessary to say ‘thank you’ to a robot? With our “Siris” and “Alexas”, we often are talking to “robots” of some sort. What are the rules of etiquette, if any, in thanking them for their help?

Naturally, your own family experiences and the ages and developmental stages of your children will guide in your choice of topics. As you engage in these discussions, it might be fun to keep track of your children’s current perspectives in a journal or time capsule. In the future, perhaps to celebrate a milestone birthday or upon high school or college graduation, take out your ‘conversation journal’ and see if your children maintain the same opinions or if they have made some changes in their attitudes towards different subjects. Either way, it’s very likely you will have had some spirited discussions and laid a foundation for effective communication.

“The development of language is part of the development of the personality, for words are the natural means of expressing thoughts and establishing understanding between people.” ~ Maria Montessori