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The Absorbent Mind and the Sensitive Periods

by Vesna Gornik, Early Childhood Head Teacher
(edited by Tori Inkley)

“Just as a physical embryo needs its mother’s womb in which to grow, so the spiritual embryo needs to be protected by an external environment that is warm with love and rich in nourishment, where everything is disposed to welcome, and nothing to harm it.”
(The Secret of Childhood, p. 35)

Dr. Maria Montessori, in The Absorbent Mind, describes the human being as having a “double embryonic life” – one prenatal and the other postnatal. This dual life sets humans apart from animals who rely on instincts, while humans are born with an inner, unseen personality that requires a special environment to flourish. The term “Absorbent Mind” refers to a child’s remarkable ability to absorb effortlessly everything around her, from culture to customs, ideas, ideals, sentiments, feelings, emotions, and religion, especially during the first six years of life.

The first stage of a child’s life is one of adaptation. Unlike adults, who can never fully adapt to a new environment, children are highly adaptable to their surroundings. While adults of various cultural backgrounds will most always prefer to eat food from their native countries… even after relocating to a different country… children will generally embrace the food that is put in front of them. As adults, whether you choose to use plates or bowls, forks or chopsticks, etc., usually depends on your childhood experience. And children don’t just adapt to time and place; they also absorb the local mentality. Dr. Montessori believed that, regardless of the country in which a child is born, he is endowed with an “absorbent mind”.

According to Montessori, a child develops in stages. The first stage, from zero to six years, is a period of transformation and is subdivided into two phases. From birth to three years, the child has an unconscious absorbent mind, where she constantly absorbs impressions from the environment without awareness or will. From three to six years, the child’s absorbent mind becomes conscious, and the child becomes intentional in her actions and begins to exercise her will. During this critical period, intelligence and personality are formed as the child begins consciously interacting with the world around her.

A child absorbs knowledge from the environment effortlessly. He is like a sponge and has a capacity to learn by himself through observation. One of the most impressive demonstrations of this is in children learning foreign languages. You might not be able to tell whether someone speaks with a native accent or not, as children exposed to foreign languages early on tend to speak without an accent. If children have the chance to be exposed to multiple languages, they can easily master them. As an adult, I cannot distinguish tones in Chinese, no matter how hard I try; likewise, I have never spoken English without an accent even after years of practice. Similarly to language, a child also absorbs behavior. For instance, I once read about a young child who was raised in a home for the elderly. By the age of 15, he moved and walked as slowly as the seniors who resided there and had adopted their posture. After enough exposure, children have also been known to replicate how the adults around them interact with each other.

Through her work, Maria Montessori observed that children pass through various “Sensitive Periods” during which they are more receptive to learning certain skills effortlessly, such as walking and talking, and even more refined skills like reading, writing, and good manners. During those periods, children want to do particular activities (practice skills) themselves; they often cannot get enough of an activity and want to repeat it over and over again. These periods are transient, and if not capitalized on, opportunities to perfect specific skills may be lost for good.

The Sensitive Period for Language begins much earlier than most realize. By 10 to 12 months, monolingual babies have already lost the ability to distinguish certain sounds from a second language that is not spoken at home. Children absorb sounds, words, and grammar from their environment. In language acquisition, the social environment plays a crucial role. Infants need to interact with people to learn language; they cannot do it simply by listening to a radio or TV. The best advice for new parents would be not to underestimate a baby. Parents should talk to a baby as much as possible, describing every action they take (e.g., “I’m going to bathe you now”, “It’s time to change your diaper”, “Do you want to wear the blue pajamas tonight?”, etc.).

Introducing books early and using fabric books so the child can engage with them using different senses (sight, touch, and even taste), is a wonderful early step toward language and vocabulary development. Later, parents can provide hardcover books that children cannot destroy. Parents should read to the child, point to the pictures, and patiently repeat words so long as the child is interested. Parents, grandparents, and even older siblings can ask young children to point to objects in a book as the adult or sibling names them. One should also remember that children absorb not just vocabulary, but actual language, tone, and phraseology, and will use those later on as well. Therefore, it’s important to be mindful of what you say. I was surprised when, at two and a half years old, my own daughter ended her first phone conversation with me by saying, “Have a good time.” – a phrase I often use with others.

Dr. Montessori believed that scientific words should be taught to children between the ages of three and six years, and that writing can only be learned with joy and enthusiasm before this period ends. I observed the process of repetition firsthand when my own daughter insisted that I repeat the names of objects in a book countless times, pointing at them with her finger. Once she mastered those words, she lost interest and moved on to her next task. The case of Victor, the “Wild Boy from Aveyron”, who never learned to speak, is an example of a missed sensitive period for language acquisition. Victor was discovered in the wild in 1800, when he was about ten or eleven years old. Developmental disability was ruled out, and his case provided evidence that there is a critical period during which spoken language must be learned.

The Sensitive Period for Order occurs in a child’s first year and continues through the second. Everything in the child’s environment should be kept in its proper place, and the actions of the day should follow a regular routine. This sense of order extends to both time and space. This can be clearly observed in young children, who need regular meals and sleep times to avoid becoming fussy. An ordered environment leads to order in the mind. To help children the most, we should maintain order and routine, stability and a general rhythm in their environment and their lives.

Among other things, Maria Montessori noticed a young child’s fascination with small objects, particularly beginning in the child’s second year. E. M. Standing wrote that this period is somewhat connected to the Sensitive Period for Order. “Children are drawn by a peculiar fascination to tiny objects in their environment – objects so small that adults often overlook them.” In today’s world, this interest is often overlooked because small objects are generally removed from environments where children under the age of three are present.

Some sensitive periods are not necessarily easy for the adult to determine, other than a general age range. Some periods, however, are very easy for adults to recognize, such as the Sensitive Period for Walking. There is also a Sensitive Period for Toilet Training, and when introduced at the right time, some say children can become trained in a week.

The Sensitive Period for the Refinement of the Senses lasts from 2 ½ to 6 years. This period coincides with the Sensitive Period for Learning Good Manners. Dr. Montessori used the Sensitive Period for the Refinement of Movement to introduce children to Practical Life exercises. “If,” said Montessori, “this perfecting of movement is introduced at the creative moment (2 ½ – 4 years), it not only tends to the normal development of the mind but also affects the whole personality, bringing contentment, concentration, and inner nourishment.” Skiing is a good example of a skill that is easily learned in childhood but becomes difficult to learn as an adult. Even if an adult does learn, his movements would not be as graceful or natural as those of someone who learned at a younger age. Similarly, we observe that athletes in gymnastics or ice skating can truly excel only if they begin practicing before a certain age.

In summary, the concepts of the “Absorbent Mind” and “Sensitive Periods” underscore the importance of creating a nurturing environment for children. During the early years, children have an incredible ability to adapt to whatever environment they were born into. To succeed in this task, a child absorbs everything in her environment. Because of the child’s absorbent mind, it’s crucial that adults be mindful of our behavior and actions. A child becomes a mirror of the adults in his life, absorbing not only positive behaviors but also negative ones. The Absorbent Mind and Sensitive Periods are closely connected. Dr. Montessori used the knowledge of Sensitive Periods to help children learn easily at the right time. By understanding these periods, she was able to support children in refining their senses, movements, and manners with ease, and the results were permanent. Montessori used individualized lessons, knowing that children experience different sensitive periods at different times. We must be observant when a child is going through a sensitive period and offer the right support.

Montessori’s recognition of Sensitive Periods gives us a framework for understanding how children learn best. We need to offer them the right opportunities to develop, to allow them to follow certain interests, to not interrupt them, to prepare the environment (making materials accessible so that when the time comes, the child will notice them and start using them independently), and to provide only the necessary help, as any unnecessary help is an obstacle to the child’s development.

As it would be unrealistic to expect an adult to change, Maria Montessori believed in the power of a child to achieve peace: “By taking the child into consideration, we touch something common to all humanity. We cannot achieve world harmony simply by attempting to unite all these adult people who are so different; but we can achieve it if we begin with the child, who is not born with national and racial prejudices.” (Her Life and Work, p. 157)

Works Referenced
“Hearing Bilingual: How Babies Sort Out Language”. New York Times, 11 October 2011.
Lillard, Paula Polk. Montessori: A Modern Approach. Schocken Books, 1972.
Montessori, Maria. The Absorbent Mind. Henry Holt, 1995.
Montessori, Maria. The Secret of Childhood. Ballantine Books,1966.
Standing, E.M. Maria Montessori: Her Life and Work. Plume, 1998.

How We Teach Reading in a Montessori Classroom

by Mareme Konare, Early Childhood Head Teacher

Scope and Sequence

In a Montessori classroom, the Language area fosters reading, writing, and oral skills, with phonics as the foundation for literacy. Reading and writing are closely connected, creating a seamless learning experience. A rich vocabulary is integrated across all areas of the Montessori Prepared Environment: Practical Life, Sensorial, Math, Language, and Culture. This ensures language development is part of everyday learning.

Introduction to Sounds with Sandpaper Letters

The journey of teaching children to read begins with introducing letter sounds using materials like the Sandpaper Letters. These tactile materials are designed to teach both reading and writing. When children are first introduced to letters, the focus is on the sounds they make rather than their letter names. For example, we say “/a/” for the letter “a” and “/b/” for the letter “b”. This learning process is guided by a sequential method called the Three-Period Lesson.

The First Period of a Three-Period Lesson is when the teacher introduces the sound (“This is /a/”) while tracing the corresponding Sandpaper Letter. This tactile and auditory connection helps children develop a strong memory of both the letter’s shape and sound. In the Second Period, the teacher asks the child to identify the sound (“Show me /a/”). And finally, in the Third Period, the child is asked to recall the sound independently (“What is this sound?”) while referencing the Sandpaper Letter.

Once children grasp the concept of individual sounds, objects related to the sounds are then introduced. For example, the teacher may say, “/a/, /a/, apple,” emphasizing the first letter of the word. The child is then encouraged to match objects to their corresponding sounds, reinforcing their understanding. Children practice these sounds independently, and the teacher reviews their work after completion, giving follow-up lessons if necessary.

Progression Through Sound Material

To ensure systematic learning, sounds continue to be introduced a few at a time, focusing on the beginning, middle, and ending sounds of phonetic words, using both objects and picture cards. This progression allows teachers to track students’ progress effectively, prior to Word Building.

Introduction to the Moveable Alphabet

Once children are confident with individual sounds, they are introduced to the Moveable Alphabet. This material bridges the gap between recognizing sounds and forming words. After receiving a lesson on how to use the Moveable Alphabet, children are given Objects (e.g., cat, hat, etc.) or Picture Cards and encouraged to “encode” the word by arranging the corresponding letters (c-a-t). This process, known as “Early Writing”, helps children connect sounds to written forms and fosters creative expression through “inventive (or invented) spelling”.

At the next stage, children begin to “decode”. Decoding involves blending the sounds they’ve now learned in order to form complete words. For example, when presented with “c-a-t”, the child learns to say “cat” and can independently match the word to the corresponding Object or Picture Card. This process of moving from encoding to decoding culminates in the child experiencing the “aha moment” of reading.

Advancing Reading Skills

As children’s skills develop, they progress through three levels of reading:

Level 1: Simple Words
~ The focus is on three-letter phonetic words (consonant-vowel-consonant, or CVC), such as “cat” and “mat”.
~ Learning is supported by the Pink Series reading materials.

Level 2: Words with Blends
~ Blends such as “bl”, “st”, and “fl” at the beginning or end of words (“blob”, “nest”, and “flag”) are introduced.
~ Learning is supported by the Blue Series reading materials.

Level 3: Complex Words
~ Work includes lessons on phonograms, irregular spelling patterns, and silent letters (e.g., “ai” in “hair”, “sh” in “ship”, silent “e”, and the silent “k” in “knight”).
~ Learning is supported by the Green Series reading materials.

Picture and Word Matching to Comprehension

Some Montessori Language lessons require children to match words to objects or pictures, enhancing their vocabulary, comprehension, and fluency. As they progress, children begin matching phrases or sentences to corresponding objects or pictures, further developing their ability to understand context and meaning. For instance, when encountering the word “crust”, children use prior knowledge and contextual clues, such as a picture of a pie or the Earth to determine whether it refers to a pie crust or the Earth’s crust. This ability to connect words to meaning fosters vocabulary growth, critical thinking, and comprehension skills.

The Montessori Approach

In summation, the Montessori approach to teaching reading is a carefully structured, hands-on process that nurtures each child’s natural curiosity and ability. By emphasizing phonics and providing tactile, auditory, and visual experiences, we create a strong foundation for literacy. Through systematic progress from encoding to decoding and from concrete to abstract, children learn to read and develop a lifelong love for language.

Independence in the Early Childhood Montessori Classroom

by Camilla Nichols, Senior Director of Montessori Development

“How does he achieve this independence? He does it by means of a continuous activity.
How does he become free? By means of constant effort…
Independence is not a static condition; it is a continuous conquest,
and in order to reach not only freedom, but also strength,
and the perfecting of one’s powers, it is necessary to follow this path of unremitting toil.”
~ Dr. Maria Montessori (The Absorbent Mind)

Maria Montessori recognized early on that there was a need for a form of education that looks at the whole child, at what drives them and what their true needs are. She observed the need for independence in children and began experimenting with different ways to guide children to become more involved in their own education, which was in opposition to the typical thought on Early Childhood Education in the 1900s. Montessori also recognized the importance of having children feel that they belong to a group, that they matter, and that other people care about them.

Young children on the road to independence want to be given the opportunity to do things on their own. On average, a child falls 17 times an hour while learning to walk, but the child doesn’t give up on this task until he has succeeded by repetition, thus learning by trial and error. Mistakes are a vital part of learning because they help children to adjust and motivate them to try again. When a child is learning a new task through direct experience, each small achievement creates a new connection in the brain, and before you know it, this new task has become automatic.

Maria Montessori allowed children to become actively involved in their own education. She discovered that when children were able to freely choose an activity and follow what she called “the child’s inner guide”, they were able to engage for a longer time and were more deeply connected to their activity. Their concentration also deepened, compared to the more traditional practice of the teacher assigning the activity or work.

This discovery was made in Italy back in 1907 at the first Montessori School, Casa dei Bambini, during an interesting observation. A teacher had accidently overslept, and as she rushed into the school, she stepped into the Prepared Environment and was astonished by what she found. All of the children had already chosen work on their own, without her being present. At first she was upset, but then Dr. Montessori urged her to observe the phenomenon before her. This is how one of the Core Principles of the Montessori Method, “Follow the Child”, was born. It was very clear that the children seemed more engaged, content, and happy, and were able to socialize, share, and help each other based on their own choices. Many core principles of the Montessori Method are based on Maria Montessori’s early observations. She observed that children make choices that are influenced by developmental needs and that the children will continue to repeat an activity over and over until their needs have been met.

“We must, therefore, quit our roles as jailers and instead
take care to prepare an environment in which we do as little as possible
to exhaust the child with our surveillance and instruction.”
~ Maria Montessori (The Child in the Family)

In a Montessori Prepared Environment, we always encourage and allow repetition as the children are born with a natural instinct to repeat. Young children are very capable of following through with an activity on their own. The role of the adult is to demonstrate how to do it and then take a step back and observe the child as she independently finishes the task. The Prepared Environment also allows children to make their own choices in a beautiful and inviting setting. Children of mixed ages work together as a community where everyone matters and everyone is able to follow their own inner guide, independently choosing meaningful and purposeful activities that foster a lifelong love of learning.

“Help me to do it by myself” ~ Maria Montessori

Handwriting Without Tears in the Montessori Early Childhood Classroom

by Krissy Huetz, Early Childhood Head Teacher

Handwriting Without Tears (HWT) was developed by Occupational Therapist Jan Olsen and is a multi-sensory approach to teaching handwriting skills. This approach is designed to make the process of learning how to write less intimidating and more accessible for students of all ages and abilities. It emphasizes simple strategies and techniques to make handwriting a more enjoyable and successful experience for students. By breaking down the process of handwriting into straightforward steps, and using a variety of hands-on activities and tools, students are able to develop their handwriting skills in a way that is engaging and effective.

By teaching children how to form letters and words in a systematic way, the program helps build foundational skills that are essential for academic success. These skills include letter formation, spacing, sizing, and alignment. By mastering these skills, students are able to produce written work that is neat, organized, and easy to read. This not only benefits students in the classroom but also helps build their confidence and self-esteem.

Typically, when an educator speaks of the “Science of Reading”, the conversation is based on a collection of research that focuses on theories about how children best learn how to read. HWT aligns with this research, as it helps students develop phonemic awareness, build an understanding of phonics, and strengthen word recognition skills. It also facilitates fine and gross motor skills in order to build handwriting fluency. “Research shows that handwriting improves academic performance in all subjects, from science to math, reading, and social studies,” said Dr. Cheryl Lundy Swift, Professional Learning Director at Learning Without Tears.

The Early Childhood Montessori curriculum engages multiple senses in developing phonemic awareness and pre-handwriting skills. The Montessori approach recognizes and respects that students have different learning styles and preferences, and that engaging multiple senses can enhance both learning and retention. HWT incorporates a range of hands-on activities, such as utilizing wooden pieces and chalkboards, to help students develop their handwriting skills in a way that is fun and engaging. By incorporating movement, touch, music, and visual cues into the learning process, students are able to more effectively internalize the skills they are learning. The combination of the Montessori Method with HWT has proven to be very successful in supporting a student’s handwriting practice.

Overall, Handwriting Without Tears is a highly effective program for teaching handwriting skills to students of varying ages and abilities. By using this multi-sensory approach, focusing on foundational skills, and incorporating a unique style of handwriting practice, HWT helps students to develop efficient and legible handwriting that will serve them well throughout their academic and professional careers. The program’s emphasis on building confidence and self-esteem, as well as its commitment to making learning fun and engaging, makes it a valuable resource for Montessori educators and students alike.

School is Out, Summer is Here… but Learning (and Fun) Don’t Need to End!

by Camilla Nichols and Zachery Inkley,
with additional content by Tori Inkley

Along with welcoming Summer, we would like to provide some fun activities and ideas to help keep your children stimulated in a meaningful way. It’s important for them to remain in a state of learning and exploration even when they’re not attending school. One suggestion would be to arrange a small shelf in your home with activities that you can rotate throughout the summer. Set it up so that your children can independently choose the work they desire. The activities can represent the same areas found in our Prepared Environments at MCA: Practical Life, Sensorial, Language, Science, Math, Cultural, and Art. For more information on how to set up a Prepared Environment at home, visit https://themontessorichildrensacademy.com/blog/2016/06/13/maintaining-a-montessori-mindset-through-the-summer/ and visit https://www.forsmallhands.com/ and https://livingmontessorinow.com for Montessori items and ideas.

No matter where the summer takes you, we encourage families to spend as much time as possible outside and in nature, as screen time is best saved as a treat for rainy days. New Jersey has so many beautiful parks and beaches for you and your little ones to enjoy. Take a hike through South Mountain Reservation or go see the Great Falls of Paterson! While exploring the outdoors, take time to set up Scavenger Hunts, or help your children craft their own Nature Journals. They can collect and learn about all the different beautiful flowers of our region or do leaf shadings to help fill up the pages of their journals. At home, you and your children could grow an herb, vegetable, or flower garden, or together you could research all the critters roaming in your own backyard! To learn more about animals from all over the globe, your family could take a trip to the Turtle Back Zoo in West Orange, or if your children are more curious about our aquatic friends, you could visit Jenkinson’s Aquarium while enjoying a day on the Point Pleasant boardwalk!

Most of our local libraries have Story Times for children. Taking your young ones to such events will help to inspire their imaginations and reinvigorate their passion for reading. We also encourage you to read with your children at home as often as possible, or maybe listen to audiobooks together while picnicking outside! We’ve included some links to books we recommend at the end of this post.

Finally, if possible, explore local museums and art festivals to stimulate your children’s imaginations and encourage their creative sides. Both Montclair and Morristown, as well as New York City, have excellent museums, and Montclair also has art festivals and live music concerts all summer long! If you really want to watch little eyes go wide, take your children to Liberty Science Center, where they can get a taste of almost everything this world has to offer. Right now, they have an incredible exhibit on the Blue Whale, a Touch Tunnel where children can learn how much we rely on our sense of touch, and a Globe IMAX Theater where you can take incredibly life-like trips through the farthest stretches of the universe and the greatest depths of the sea. We encourage you to embrace every opportunity to expand the young minds of your children and broaden their natural sense of wonder!

We hope all of our families have a lovely summer full of exploration and joy!

NJ Parks and Reservations:

NJ Zoos and Aquariums:

Museums and Creative Centers:

Classic Children’s Books:

Make Way for Ducklings by Robert McCloskey
Anatole by Eve Titus
Blueberries for Sal by Robert McCloskey
Max and the Tag-Along Moon by Floyd Cooper
Abuela by Arthur Dorros
Corduroy by Don Freeman
The Snowy Day by Ezra Jack Keats
The Story of Ferdinand by Munro Leaf
Millions of Cats by Wanda Gag
Owl Moon by Jane Yolen
The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle
The Poky Little Puppy by Janette Sebring Lowrey
The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams
Are You My Mother? by P.D. Eastman
Madeline by Ludwig Bemelmans

Arts and Crafts for Inside Days:

And for those rainy days, or possibly travel days, when you feel a little tech time is appropriate for your children, you may want to check out the app “Mobile Montessori” at https://www.mobilemontessori.org .