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“Shaping Peace Together” at MCA

Peace before me; Peace behind me
Peace at my left; Peace at my right
Peace above me; Peace below me
Peace unto me; Peace in my surroundings
Peace to all; Peace to the Universe

Most of us think of September as the end of summer and start of a new school year, celebrating Labor Day as the month’s main holiday. However, around the globe, September is known for something different – it is the month in which the International Day of Peace is celebrated. Established in 1981, September 21st has been designated as the date when “the United Nations invites all nations and people to honour a cessation of hostilities during the Day, and to otherwise commemorate the Day through education and public awareness on issues related to peace.”  Each year, the United Nations adopts a theme for their peace celebration, and this year’s theme is “Shaping Peace Together”.  At MCA, this very idea has long been the foundation of our peace curriculum, following in the footsteps of Dr. Maria Montessori who dedicated herself to peace efforts. The work continues today, as we all strive for peace in our homes, peace in our communities, and peace in our world.

As the school year begins, Montessori classrooms work very hard to establish a peaceful community by focusing on respect for self, others, and the environment. Teachers know that one key to external peace is having internal peace and that one method of instilling inner peace in children is by showing them respect. At its core, Montessori education focuses on respecting children, as we ‘follow the child.’ In the classroom, teachers observe their students, looking at and attending to the interests and needs of each individual.  Children’s work is valued and their needs are considered. Students in Montessori classrooms learn that what they do matters, what they feel matters, and what they say matters. The primary lessons shared in class relate to those three factors and move children towards doing good work, acknowledging their feelings and the feelings of others, and expressing themselves kindly, clearly, and respectfully. This in turn helps promote feelings of being centered, confident, and capable. Children show respect for themselves in the work choices they make at school, in the self-care activities they practice and learn, and in they way they come to understand their feelings. These small but important steps help children feel at peace within themselves.

As children gather this sense of self, they then can begin to extend respect beyond themselves. They learn simple Grace and Courtesy lessons in sharing greetings, asking for help, contributing to circle time discussions, and making their needs known. As they grow in their communication and social skills, they form friendships, manage disagreements, and acknowledge differences. Inner peace and respect for self moves outward as children begin showing respect for others and creating a peaceful environment for all. Moving forward on this path, the classroom community very quickly begins to collectively take ownership of the beautiful materials they share, the space they inhabit, and the kind of feelings they want to sustain while working together. The classroom becomes a place where a peaceful community works together.

At each level, from toddlers up through Upper Elementary students, these basic lessons about respect and peace are built upon year after year, further cementing this important foundation. The beginning of every school year at MCA is all about “Shaping Peace Together”, by planting the seeds of peace and respect inside of each individual child and growing these values so they can be shared with peers, teachers, and the classroom environment. Ultimately, the goal is that peace and respect spread and bloom beyond classroom walls and into our homes, communities, and the world. We see the promise of peace each September when we welcome our students. And we strive to continue Dr. Montessori’s peace efforts as we celebrate the International Day of Peace and promote peace in our world not only on September 21st, but each and every day.

You may enjoy reading some of the following books centered on the theme of peace with your families at home:

A Handful of Quiet – Happiness in Four Pebbles by Thich Nhat Hanh

Can You Say Peace? by Karen Katz

Maybe – The Story about the endless Potential in All of Us by Kobi Yamada

Peace is an Offering by Annette LeBox

Somewhere Today – A Book of Peace by Shelley Thomas

The Peace Rose by Alicia Olson

And for parents of older children, you might like to explore the United Nations site at https://www.un.org/en/observances/international-day-peace, which presents various ways to engage in the International Day of Peace and includes information about its virtual event for students on September 17th, a summary of which follows as taken from the website:

Online Student Observance
This year’s International Day of Peace Observance will be a virtual event under the theme “Shaping Peace Together”, to be held on 17 September 2020 from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. EDT. The online Student Observance will begin with a dialogue between United Nations Messengers of Peace and young people around the world on the United Nations Secretary-General’s call for a global ceasefire and the importance of coming together peacefully to turn the COVID-19 crises into an opportunity for peace and inclusivity. The Peace Bell Ceremony will follow, featuring the participation of the United Nations Secretary-General, the President of the General Assembly and the Permanent Representative of Japan to the United Nations. There will also be a performance by the Universal Hip Hop Museum.

Let’s “Light a Candle for Peace”

Our families know that a key component of the Montessori philosophy is the focus on peace education. Not only do students learn about cultures from around the world to gain respect for and understanding of people of many backgrounds, but they also participate in ongoing grace and courtesy exchanges, mindfulness exercises, and conflict resolution lessons. In addition, Montessori students learn about responsibility for themselves and their choices and for the care and caring of others and the environment, too.

In light of current events which make our hearts heavy, we wanted to take this opportunity to once again share the words of a song our school community learns and sings together each year. We know that our children are our hope for the future, so we remain hopeful that with love, respect, learning, and meaningful experiences, our children will “Light a Candle for Peace” today and always. We wish and will work for a peaceful world for all.

Light a Candle for Peace
By Shelley Murley

Light a candle for peace
Light a candle for love
Light a candle that shines all the way around the world
Light a candle for me
Light a candle for you
That our wish for world peace
Will one day come true! (repeats)
Sing peace around the world
Sing peace around the world
Sing peace around the world
Sing peace around the world (combine chorus and verse)
Light a candle for peace
Light a candle for love
Light a candle that shines all the way around the world
Light a candle for me
Light a candle for you
That our wish for world peace
Will one day come true!

To listen to a recording of the song, visit https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K9M8SmWh2Fo .

Spotlight On: Dr. Timothy Purnell

 

This past summer, we had the distinct pleasure of sitting down with Dr. Timothy Purnell to discuss all things Montessori. Not only is Dr. Purnell the Chief Executive Officer of the American Montessori Society (AMS), but we are proud to say that he is also the parent of an alumna from The Montessori Children’s Academy. With vast experience in the field of education as a teacher, superintendent, professor, public speaker, and current CEO of AMS, Dr. Purnell continues to be driven and determined to promote the best practices in education for children today and for future generations to come. Experiencing his high energy and an array of engaging stories, we came away from our visit with Dr. Purnell enlightened and eager to share his passion for education, and especially Montessori education.

MCA: Can you tell us a little about how you were introduced to education as a career?

Dr. Purnell: I actually started out studying medicine. But as I got deeper into it, I realized it wasn’t for me. My father—who is himself a doctor—suggested I study teaching instead. I said, “No way!” My own experience had been that much of school was a nightmare, and I couldn’t imagine replicating that for others. But my father responded, “Exactly! Change the things you do not like.” And that really impacted me. So after college, I took a job as a guide in a Montessori summer program; and that fall, I accepted a position in a Montclair public school. To my surprise, I discovered that education was really my calling and that I wanted to create an environment for children that was contrary to my own experiences.

Dr. Purnell eventually became a professor in higher education, and he shared how Montessori resurfaced in his life during his experiences in the university setting.

Dr. Purnell:  At Georgian Court University and Fairleigh Dickenson University, I asked the students to explore different pedagogies and to report back about what interested them most. They responded with many ideas about different theorists they were eager to learn more about in class—such as Dewey, Erikson, Piaget, Vygotsky—and, quite often, Maria Montessori. I am grateful to my students for “resurfacing” Dr. Montessori in my life!

Montessori did, indeed, find Dr. Purnell, and the Montessori Method further became the inspiration for his work as Superintendent of Schools in Somerville, NJ, where he launched a high school program incorporating Montessori values, which has since become a lighthouse for best practices.

Dr. Purnell: In Somerville, during my second year as superintendent, my team and I were doing data analytics at the high school and our metrics showed the dropout rate to be increasing. We realized if we didn’t take decisive action, the graduation rate would continue to decrease. So I assembled a team of like- and unlike-minded individuals—students and teachers, along with input from a local resident and professor from Fairleigh Dickinson University, Dr. Randall Westbrook—and my team came up with an idea to launch an inspirational, non-traditional learning space in the public sector, designed for students who were metrically at risk for dropping out, such as students who had been incarcerated, were struggling with school anxiety, were exploring sexual orientation, and/or just didn’t fit into the traditional mold.

Although it wasn’t strictly Montessori, it would include such Montessori tenets as uninterrupted blocks of work time, the opportunity for self-paced learning, teachers who served as guides rather than “masters,” and classes with multi-age groupings. The program was set up to be rolling, allowing for graduation mid-year.

The program was specially equipped with its own non-Child Study Team School Psychologist full time for support. Students were greeted every day with food, and eventually they started a small farm, growing crops and giving them to a local restaurant. The program became a smashing success with credit recovery escalating rapidly, students progressing greatly—some were even graduating early—and enrollment and graduation rates improving. The program won awards, and we became a top school district for approaching learning in a differentiated way. The strength of the Montessori pedagogy approach allowed for these students who did not fit the traditional mold to achieve success.

Dr. Purnell’s great success as the Superintendent in Somerville, led to him being selected as NASS Superintendent of the Year in 2016. His reputation spread, and Dr. Purnell later became the CEO of the American Montessori Society, where he has been advocating for Montessori education and working internationally on initiatives to promote high quality Montessori programs through teacher education programs, conferences, podcasts, keynote addresses, and TEDx talks.

Dr. Purnell is currently leading an initiative at AMS to ensure that there’s emphasis on quality Montessori schools over quantity of Montessori schools. He is especially proud of the increasing number of AMS member schools that are pursuing AMS accreditation—the gold standard of Montessori education—as well as those that are taking advantage of a resource called the AMS Pathway of Continuous School Improvement.

But Dr. Purnell also has another personal connection to Montessori, and that is with his youngest child, who attended MCA.

MCA: What drew you to MCA?

Dr. Purnell: When my wife and I were looking for a school for our daughter, we knew we wanted a Montessori environment that was not only high-fidelity, but a place where she would flourish—as it’s not just the pedagogy that makes for Montessori, but the entire look and feel of a program. When we entered MCA, we knew right away that this was going to be the right place. We quickly fell in love with the teacher, whom we recognized as an incredible educator and nurturer, the classrooms, the joy that we saw on the students’ faces, and their focused concentration; the everything. We agreed we could make it work with our schedules, even though it meant some tricky logistics for my wife, regarding drop off and pick up.

We wanted to know how the Montessori philosophy may have filtered into his own home life.

MCA: In what ways have you seen how an early Montessori education positively impacted your own child?

At home, we see it in how she takes care of the environment, treating things well and putting them back in their proper places. She speaks to us respectfully (usually!) and is helpful, especially when it comes to cleaning up, and is independent (and opinionated) about selecting her clothing. I can see her gaining confidence in herself and realizing that she doesn’t always need to come to me or another adult to solve things—she’s learning to draw on her own resources. On top of all this, she loves to go to school. What more could a parent ask?

MCA: What do you tell your neighbors and friends about Montessori?

Dr. Purnell: I talk about the independence of the Montessori child. I talk about the joy of the Montessori child. Of my Montessori child. About how she loves school, and loves learning—as   do her classmates. Another thing I address is the focus on early learning, that is, is, birth through age 6, This is a period Maria Montessori called the “absorbent stage,” when children experience intense mental activity that allows them to “absorb” learning from their environment quickly and easily without conscious effort. It’s a critical time in their lives, and a Montessori environment is an ideal place to nurture and support it. As Dr. Montessori said, “Education must begin at birth.”

MCA: If Dr. Montessori were alive today, what would you want to ask her? What do you want to know straight from the source?

Dr. Purnell: That’s a tough question because there are so many things I would want to know! To start, I would like to hear her stories about teaching children who were dismissed because they were thought to be “mentally deficient,” to use the very un-PC parlance of the times, and what surprised her most. I’d also be interested to know her creative process in developing Montessori learning materials—the prototypes of the very same materials we see here in MCA.

I’d be fascinated to know about the “Glass Classroom” that she staged for the 1915 Panama Pacific International Exposition in San Francisco. This was a glass-walled demonstration Montessori classroom where hundreds of visitors would gather round to observe children at work. The children, who had never attended Montessori school before, worked with such focus that it seemed they didn’t notice. How did Dr. Montessori have such confidence that this would work?

And I’d want to know about her experiences living in exile in India during WWII, and her development as a pacifist. Did you know she was nominated for a Nobel Peace Prize three times? And of course I’d want her perspectives on our world today: the use of technology in the classroom and beyond, strides made in women’s rights—she was also a feminist—teaching tolerance. and so much more.

MCA: It would be a great conversation! Finally, we’d like to ask, how do you see Montessori changing and benefiting our world?

Dr. Purnell: This is what Montessori is truly all about and actually the topic of my next TEDx talk in Delaware, “The Future with Montessori.” I’ll be talking about how by operating humanely, and by that I mean equitably, inclusively, respectfully, and kindly in all facets of our lives: professional, personal, familial, governmental, and especially with those less fortunate than we are, we can make the world a better place. And how the place to start is with our children. In her book, Education and Peace, Maria Montessori said, “The child is both a hope and a promise for mankind.”

And speaking of making the world a better place, this past year I had the privilege of leading the AMS Board of Directors and AMS staff in rewriting our mission statement. It was an interesting process that derived from personal stories they told about individual experiences with Montessori and AMS. We eventually dissected all the stories and isolated key words that everyone agreed were impactful in describing the “what and why” of our organization—that is, our mission—and came up with these simple but powerful words: “Empowering humanity to build a better world through Montessori.” We are very proud of it, and even had it printed on T-shirts that we wore during a recent service learning project with Habitat for Humanity NYC!

We truly believe Montessori can change the world. It will happen through the children at MCA—and, if we are fortunate, with children throughout the world.

The Montessori Children’s Academy extends its deepest gratitude to Dr. Purnell for taking the time to share his thoughts and experiences with us. For more information about AMS and to access resources about Montessori for families, you may wish to visit their website at amshq.org. There you may also view Dr. Purnell’s impactful TEDx video presentation, “Truth in Leadership: #GetOffYourIsland”. 

Peace

By Alex Chiu

“Peace is every step,” wrote Thich Nhat Hanh, a Vietnamese Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, author, and peace activist. In his many books, he offers suggestions for how we can find peace in any and every moment, especially the most hectic ones! This sage one would probably love spending time in a Montessori classroom where he could see that peace, indeed, is in every step the children take at school. Within everything a child does in the Montessori environment, there is an underlying lesson which helps to build the foundation of living mindfully, joyfully, and peacefully with ‘every step’.

This peace education begins on the very first day of school when teachers introduce lessons on Grace and Courtesy. They model the use of simple words and actions that demonstrate respect and regard for self, others, and the environment. Children learn the polite way to greet people. They are shown how to carefully walk around the work rugs of their classmates and how to move throughout the classroom slowly and with care. Vocabulary for interrupting someone or asking for something is provided and practiced. All of this early groundwork sets the stage for a classroom community whose members can work together and enjoy one another, while at the same time promoting a peaceful, safe, warm environment in which the children can learn and grow.

After these early Grace and Courtesy lessons, the children begin their exploration of the Montessori materials, making their way to the Language, Math, Cultural, Practical Life, and Sensorial areas. All of these areas of the classroom are filled with enticing ‘work’ for the children to do, leading them to wonderful academic discoveries. But mastermind that she was, Dr. Montessori incorporated ‘secret’ lessons into the materials she developed. In addition to teaching an academic skill, each activity is also a lesson in mindfulness and part of Montessori’s goal of education being a vehicle for peace in the world.

When using any of the Montessori materials, children must navigate through several steps. These include setting up a work space (either at a table or on a floor work rug), retrieving the material from the shelf, performing the tasks required to complete the work, returning the work to the shelf when finished, and then cleaning up the work area. The children’s movements must be planned, precise, and peaceful in each step. As they traverse throughout the classroom, they must negotiate the other people and furniture in the environment. When attending to their work, they have been shown how to use the material purposefully and carefully. The children understand that the care of the materials benefits the whole class, and they want to make sure things are taken care of for themselves and for everyone in their classroom. The beauty of the materials captures their attention and inspires their interest and careful consideration. Children take their time as they work. They aren’t rushed to complete one thing in order to move on to another. Instead, they are in charge of their work time which is safeguarded in an uninterrupted work cycle which facilitates their investigation of the materials and allows them to explore without being hurried along to the next activity. They enjoy the work that they do!

Many Montessori classrooms also include a special Peace Table where children might be found raking sand in a Zen garden, observing seasonal items from nature such as seashells or pinecones, or balancing a collection of smooth stones. Even the youngest Montessorians engage in these peace activities either at a Peace Table or in their other lessons chosen from across the curriculum. As shown in the lovely photograph above, some of the children in one of our MCA 2 ½ – 3 ½ classrooms took time to create beautiful ‘nature mandalas’ using a collection of items from nature in combination with pretty glass seashells and stones. Providing children with such opportunities allows them to observe nature, to make a connection with the materials, to mindfully take time to create a pretty display, to sit peacefully, and to take delight in the work that they completed.

Peace, indeed, is every step in the Montessori way. We take heart in knowing that Montessori education continues to promote peace in the development of our children, and we remain hopeful that the children will live out these lessons of peace as they grow and move about in our world. We wish everyone a joyful, peaceful 2019!

Growing Up with a Grateful Heart

 

By Alex Chiu

Your spouse passes a dish from the dinner table to your son. You bring a tissue to your daughter when she is sniffling while watching TV. Your mother brings your child a birthday gift. As parents, our almost kneejerk response when any of these things occur is to immediately prompt our child with “What do you say?” Sometimes we do this even before the child has had a chance to process that someone has done something kind for him or her. But what do we really accomplish with that prompting? Generally, children will give the required “thank you” response you are seeking, but is there a real sense of gratitude behind those words?

To nurture a true grateful heart, we must make gratitude a daily practice with our children. It’s important for them to understand that there is so much we can be grateful for—big and small— and recognizing this at an early age helps children grow up with gratitude as a matter of course. Why is this important? Research indicates that having a sense of gratitude can help people reduce feelings of sadness, stress, and loneliness. In his article “7 Surprising Health Benefits of Gratitude”, author Jamie Ducharme outlines how gratitude can help people become more patient, reduce overeating, combat depression, improve relationships, improve sleep, and generally make you feel happier (Time Health, November 2017). And Ann Morin has her own list of seven benefits (seven must be a lucky number!), adding that gratitude can lessen aggression, improve empathy and self-esteem, and promote better physical and psychological health (“7 Scientifically Proven Benefits of Gratitude That Will Motivate You to Give Thanks Year-Round”, Forbes, November 2014).

So how can parents help their children (and themselves) learn the practice of gratitude? Let’s count some very simple ways to express gratitude at least four times throughout the day:

1. First thing in the morning: Begin the day by sharing one thing you’re grateful for that morning. Warm water to wash your hands, the sun shining, fuzzy pajamas, breakfast—model a sentence of gratitude and invite your child to think of what he or she is grateful for that morning.
2. On the way to school: Comment about one thing you see that makes you feel grateful. Recently, for me, it was having all green lights on the drive to school! But it could be anything—a car that functions, the beauty of the changing leaves, a favorite song that comes on the radio. A simple recognition of “I’m so grateful that song came on—it really brightened my mood!” is a great way to share your gratitude with your child.
3. At home after school: Express your gratitude to your child when he or she is helpful, kind, or considerate to you or any other family member. But be specific and add on to the usual “Thank you”. If your child remembers to put toys away before coming to the dinner table, you might extend your gratitude by saying “Thank you for remembering to clean up—that really helps me and shows me that you’re responsible and that you care about taking care of your toys and our house!” Invite your child to think about who has done something since coming home from school that he or she would like to thank.
4. At bedtime: Have your child share one thing about the day that he or she is truly grateful for—it could have been time spent with friends, learning a new skill or concept at school, the yummy dinner you made, snuggling with the dog, anything!

It may take some time for this habit to take hold, but if you take the initiative in sharing what you are grateful for on a regular basis, your children will very likely follow suit. And then the entire family can reap the many more than seven benefits of a grateful heart!

For a list of fun gratitude activities for the whole family, including how to make a ‘gratitude box’, some gratitude prompts, gratitude games, and even gratitude apps you can download, check out: https://positivepsychologyprogram.com/gratitude-exercises/

More information and resources on gratitude, including those used as references in this article include:
http://time.com/5026174/health-benefits-of-gratitude/
https://www.forbes.com/sites/amymorin/2014/11/23/7-scientifically-proven-benefits-of-gratitude-that-will-motivate-you-to-give-thanks-year-round/#13d897b9183c
https://tinybuddha.com/

And some lovely children’s books with a gratitude theme you might enjoy:
Did I Ever Tell You How Lucky You Are? by Dr. Seuss
Giving Thanks: A Native American Good Morning Message by Jake Swamp
Splatt Says Thank You by Rob Scotton
Sylvester and the Magic Pebble by William Steig
Those Shoes by Maribeth Boelts